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3 Reasons Why You Should Never Rush To Find Love
Timelines in love are unnatural
Have you ever wondered how many of us are not with partners right for us because we’re keeping ourselves unavailable by being with the wrong ones?
We live in a culture where love is often seen as a goal to attain, rather than a natural bond that develops organically between two people. As a result:
We rush love because we have set timelines for ourselves.
We rush love because we’re reaching a ‘certain age’.
We rush love because society tells us we should.
Sometimes we rush love because our ego wants to be in love. And while a fraction of us do get lucky, the prevalence of unhappy relationships, cheating and divorces in today’s times are a clear indicator that maybe our current cultural approach of love and romance isn’t really working.
Love isn’t a status you can orchestrate, it’s a result of authentic bonding and romantic sparks between two human beings. And by rushing love, we set ourselves up for unfulfilling relationships for a few key reasons:
#1. The Wrong Person Can Drain You
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